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Being an Ally in Finance: How to Support Underrepresented Colleagues

Allyship isn't about grand gestures. It's about consistent actions that create more equitable environments. Here's how to be an effective ally in finance—with specific behaviors that actually make a difference.

By Coastal Haven Partners

Being an Ally in Finance: How to Support Underrepresented Colleagues

Most people in finance want their workplace to be fair. Few know what to actually do about it.

Allyship gets talked about in diversity training sessions, then forgotten the moment real situations arise. The junior woman gets interrupted in a meeting. The Black analyst doesn't get credit for his idea. The first-generation professional misses unspoken networking norms.

In each moment, potential allies stay silent. Not because they don't care, but because they don't know what to do.

This article is about what to do. Not abstract principles—specific actions that make finance more equitable for underrepresented colleagues.


What Allyship Actually Is

The Definition

Allyship is using your position to support people who face barriers you don't face.

It's not:

  • Performative statements
  • One-time gestures
  • Self-congratulation
  • Expecting gratitude

It is:

  • Consistent behavior over time
  • Actions that cost you something (time, political capital, comfort)
  • Following the lead of those you're supporting
  • Continuous learning and adjustment

Why It Matters in Finance

Finance has particular dynamics that make allyship important:

Homogeneity: Finance remains less diverse than many industries, especially at senior levels. Underrepresented professionals often lack natural support networks.

Informal systems: Much of finance success depends on unwritten rules, informal relationships, and information sharing that flows through networks. Those outside dominant networks are disadvantaged.

High stakes: Compensation, career progression, and deal staffing create high-stakes environments where small advantages compound.

Competitive culture: The individual achievement orientation can make collective support feel unnatural.

The Business Case

Beyond ethics, allyship benefits firms and teams:

Retention: Inclusive environments retain diverse talent. Turnover is expensive.

Performance: Diverse teams with inclusive cultures outperform homogeneous ones. Research is clear on this.

Recruiting: Reputation for inclusion attracts stronger, more diverse candidate pools.

Risk management: Exclusionary cultures create legal and reputational risk.


Everyday Allyship Actions

In Meetings

Amplify contributions: When someone's idea is overlooked or co-opted, attribute it back.

"That builds on what Sarah mentioned earlier—Sarah, can you say more about your point?"

Interrupt interruptions: When someone gets cut off, redirect back to them.

"Hold on, I want to hear Maria finish her thought."

Watch for patterns: Notice if certain people consistently get interrupted, dismissed, or assigned note-taking. Address the pattern.

Share the floor: If you're someone who tends to dominate discussions, consciously create space for others.

Credit and Visibility

Attribute work accurately: When discussing projects, name who contributed what.

"James ran the analysis on this—his work identified the pricing opportunity."

Correct misattribution: If someone else gets credit for a colleague's work, correct it.

"Actually, that model was primarily built by Priya. She should walk you through it."

Recommend people for opportunities: Proactively suggest underrepresented colleagues for good projects, client exposure, and development opportunities.

Sponsor in rooms where they're discussed: Speak up for people's advancement when they're not present.

Informal Information Sharing

Demystify unwritten rules: Share the implicit knowledge that helps people navigate.

"FYI, the MD prefers models in this format. Nobody will tell you that directly, but it matters."

Include in informal networks: Invite to lunches, coffee, after-work events. Informal networks often exclude people unconsciously.

Provide context: Help people understand firm dynamics, politics, and unspoken expectations.

Feedback and Development

Give honest feedback: Underrepresented professionals often receive less direct feedback. Don't assume they can't handle it.

Provide developmental opportunities: Assign challenging work that builds skills and visibility.

Mentor and sponsor: Mentorship (advice) is valuable; sponsorship (advocacy) is more valuable. Do both.


Addressing Biased Behavior

When to Speak Up

In the moment: When you witness bias or exclusion happening, address it then if possible.

Privately later: If public intervention would escalate or embarrass, follow up privately.

To the person affected: Check in with your colleague. They may or may not want you to take action.

How to Address It

Direct but professional: "I don't think you meant it this way, but that comment could come across as dismissive. Can we revisit?"

Curious rather than accusatory: "Help me understand what you meant by that?" This invites reflection.

Focus on behavior, not character: "That comment was problematic" rather than "You're racist/sexist."

Follow through: If you say you'll address something, do it. Empty promises damage trust.

Managing Risk

Know your position: Your ability to speak up depends on your standing. Junior people have real constraints.

Build credibility first: Allies with strong professional reputations have more influence.

Pick battles strategically: You can't fight everything. Focus where you can have impact.

Accept discomfort: Speaking up will sometimes be uncomfortable or have costs. That's part of allyship.


Structural Allyship

Beyond Individual Actions

Advocate for policy changes: Push for transparent promotion criteria, inclusive recruiting practices, flexible work arrangements.

Participate in diversity initiatives: Join ERGs (Employee Resource Groups) as an ally. Show up.

Mentor and sponsor systematically: Don't just help one person. Create ongoing commitment to developing diverse talent.

Hire and promote inclusively: When you have authority, use it to expand opportunity.

Using Position and Power

If you're senior:

  • Champion inclusive policies
  • Model behavior publicly
  • Hold others accountable
  • Create advancement opportunities
  • Set tone for your team

If you're mid-level:

  • Support junior colleagues directly
  • Push back on biased decisions
  • Influence hiring and staffing
  • Bridge junior people to senior relationships

If you're junior:

  • Support peers
  • Learn and educate yourself
  • Build habits you'll carry forward
  • Influence culture in your cohort

Common Mistakes

Performative Allyship

The problem: Public statements without action. Diversity email signatures but no actual behavior change.

The fix: Focus on consistent actions, not symbolic gestures. What you do when no one's watching matters most.

Savior Complex

The problem: Acting like you're rescuing people who can't help themselves. Speaking for rather than with.

The fix: Follow the lead of those you're supporting. Ask what they need. Recognize their agency.

Centering Yourself

The problem: Making allyship about your journey, your learning, your feelings.

The fix: Keep focus on outcomes for those you're supporting. Your growth is secondary.

Expecting Credit

The problem: Wanting recognition for being an ally. Getting frustrated when it doesn't come.

The fix: Allyship isn't about you. Do it because it's right, not for acknowledgment.

One-Time Actions

The problem: Doing something once and considering yourself an ally permanently.

The fix: Allyship is ongoing. It requires continuous action and learning.

Speaking Over

The problem: Advocating in ways that silence the very people you're trying to help.

The fix: Amplify voices rather than replace them. Create space; don't fill it.


Learning and Growing

Educate Yourself

Don't expect colleagues to teach you: Read books, articles, and research. Don't burden underrepresented colleagues with educating you about their experiences.

Listen to lived experience: When people share their experiences, listen without defensiveness.

Stay current: Understanding of DEI evolves. Keep learning.

Accept Feedback

You will make mistakes: Every ally does. What matters is how you respond.

Don't get defensive: When someone tells you something was harmful, believe them. Apologize and adjust.

Learn from errors: Mistakes are information. Use them to improve.

Build Relationships

Genuine relationships matter: Allyship works best when grounded in real connection.

Don't tokenize: Having one friend from a group doesn't make you an expert on that group's experience.

Long-term commitment: Real allyship develops over years, not moments.


The Limits of Individual Action

What Allyship Can't Fix

Individual allyship can't solve systemic problems alone. It's necessary but not sufficient.

Systems matter: Hiring practices, promotion criteria, compensation structures—these require institutional change.

Culture is collective: One ally in a toxic environment has limited impact.

Leadership determines much: Without senior leadership commitment, change is constrained.

The Combination That Works

Individual action + structural change: Allies create better individual experiences while also pushing for systemic improvement.

Critical mass: One ally is limited. Many allies shift culture.

Top-down and bottom-up: Change happens when both leadership and individual contributors commit.


Key Takeaways

Allyship in finance is about consistent actions that create more equitable environments.

What to do:

  • Amplify and attribute contributions
  • Share informal information and networks
  • Speak up when you witness bias
  • Sponsor underrepresented colleagues
  • Push for structural improvements

How to do it:

  • Focus on behavior, not gestures
  • Follow the lead of those you're supporting
  • Accept discomfort as part of the work
  • Learn continuously
  • Build genuine relationships

What to avoid:

  • Performative statements without action
  • Centering yourself in the narrative
  • Expecting gratitude or recognition
  • One-time actions instead of consistent behavior
  • Speaking for rather than with

The reality: Allyship isn't glamorous. It's not dramatic interventions and standing ovations. It's small, consistent actions—interrupting an interruption, crediting the right person, sharing information, speaking up in a meeting.

Those small actions, repeated over time, by many people, change cultures.

That's how finance becomes more equitable. One meeting, one decision, one interaction at a time.

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