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How to Network for Finance Jobs: The Complete Guide to Building Relationships That Get You Hired

Most finance jobs go to people who were recommended by someone inside. Networking isn't optional—it's the game. Here's how to play it.

By Coastal Haven Partners

How to Network for Finance Jobs: The Complete Guide to Building Relationships That Get You Hired

Most finance jobs are filled before they're posted.

A managing director mentions needing an analyst. Someone says, "I know someone great." An email goes out. An interview happens. The job listing never appears.

This is how finance works. Resumes matter. Credentials matter. But relationships matter more. The person who gets the interview often isn't the most qualified—they're the most connected.

Networking isn't schmoozing. It's not collecting business cards or adding LinkedIn contacts. It's building genuine relationships with people who can help your career—and whom you can help in return.

This guide shows you how to do it. Not vague advice about "being authentic." Specific tactics for reaching out, following up, and turning conversations into opportunities.


Why Networking Matters in Finance

The Hidden Job Market

Finance recruiting has two tracks.

The visible track: Job postings, campus recruiting, formal applications. Thousands of applicants compete for each spot.

The invisible track: Internal referrals, recruiter relationships, network recommendations. Far fewer competitors.

Estimates suggest 50-70% of finance jobs are filled through the invisible track. The best opportunities often never reach job boards.

The Reference Effect

Even for posted jobs, referrals matter enormously.

A referral from someone inside the firm moves your resume to the top of the pile. Hiring managers trust recommendations from people they know. You skip the initial screening that eliminates most candidates.

One study found referred candidates are 4x more likely to be hired than cold applicants. In competitive finance recruiting, that advantage is decisive.

The Information Advantage

Networking also provides information unavailable elsewhere.

  • Which groups are hiring before it's announced
  • What interviewers actually look for
  • How compensation negotiations really work
  • Whether a firm's culture matches its reputation

This information shapes better decisions. It helps you target the right opportunities and prepare more effectively.


The Networking Mindset

Before tactics, understand the right mindset.

Give Before You Take

Effective networking isn't transactional. It's relational. The goal isn't extracting favors—it's building mutual value over time.

When you approach someone asking for help, you're making a withdrawal. If you haven't made deposits, that withdrawal feels uncomfortable.

What can you offer?

  • Genuine interest in their work and perspective
  • Thoughtful questions that make them think
  • Information or connections valuable to them
  • A reputation as someone worth knowing

Start by giving. The taking follows naturally.

Think Long-Term

The best networking happens before you need something.

Reaching out when you're desperate for a job is obvious and off-putting. Reaching out when you're genuinely curious builds real relationships.

Start networking two years before you need it. The relationships will be there when opportunities arise.

Be Genuinely Curious

The best networkers aren't performing interest. They're actually interested.

Finance is full of fascinating people doing complex work. If you approach conversations genuinely curious about what they do and how they think, networking stops feeling like a chore.

People sense the difference between genuine interest and obligation. Be the person who's genuinely interested.


Finding People to Network With

Alumni Networks

Your school's alumni network is the easiest entry point. Shared educational background creates immediate common ground.

How to find them:

  • LinkedIn search filtered by school and industry
  • Alumni directories from your university
  • Career services alumni databases
  • Alumni association events

Why they respond: Most people feel some obligation to help people from their school. They remember being in your position. The shared connection provides context for your outreach.

Second-Degree Connections

Someone you know knows someone who works in finance. Leverage existing relationships.

How to find them:

  • Ask professors, family friends, and former employers for introductions
  • Check LinkedIn for mutual connections with target professionals
  • Ask people you've already networked with for referrals

Why they respond: The mutual connection provides credibility. They're not responding to a stranger—they're responding to a friend-of-a-friend.

Professional Events

Industry events, conferences, and panels put you in the same room as finance professionals.

Types of events:

  • Campus recruiting presentations
  • Industry conferences (if you can access them)
  • Professional association meetings
  • Alumni networking events
  • Panel discussions at business schools

How to maximize them: Come prepared with specific questions. Follow up within 48 hours with people you meet. Don't try to meet everyone—have deeper conversations with fewer people.

Cold Outreach

Sometimes you don't have a warm connection. Cold outreach still works—if done well.

Who to cold email:

  • People whose careers you genuinely admire
  • Professionals at firms you're targeting
  • People who've shared content you found valuable

Cold outreach has lower response rates. Expect 10-20% at best. Volume matters, but so does quality.


The Cold Email

Cold emails are an art form. Most are terrible. Here's how to write ones that get responses.

The Anatomy of an Effective Cold Email

Subject line: Simple and clear. "Fellow [University] Alum—Quick Question" or "[Mutual Connection] Suggested I Reach Out"

Opening: Who you are and why you're reaching out. One to two sentences.

The ask: What you want, specifically. One coffee chat. One phone call. Not an ongoing mentorship.

The close: Make it easy to say yes. Offer specific times. Acknowledge their time is valuable.

Length: Under 150 words. Busy people don't read long emails from strangers.

Template: Alumni Cold Email

Subject: Fellow [University Name] Student—Quick Question About [Firm]

Hi [First Name],

I'm a [year] at [University] studying [major]. I found your profile on LinkedIn and saw that you work in [Group] at [Bank].

I'm exploring investment banking and would love to hear about your experience at [Bank]—particularly how you chose [Group] and what the day-to-day is really like.

Would you have 15-20 minutes for a quick call in the next few weeks? I'm flexible on timing and happy to work around your schedule.

Thanks so much for considering.

[Your Name] [Phone] | [LinkedIn URL]

Template: Second-Degree Introduction

Subject: [Mutual Connection] Suggested I Reach Out

Hi [First Name],

[Mutual Connection] mentioned you when I asked about careers in [area]. They spoke highly of your path from [previous role] to [current role].

I'm currently [your situation] and exploring opportunities in [area]. I'd love to learn from your experience, particularly [specific question].

Would you be open to a brief call sometime in the next week or two?

Best, [Your Name]

Template: Cold Outreach (No Connection)

Subject: Quick Question About Your Path to [Firm]

Hi [First Name],

I came across your background while researching careers in [area]. Your path from [notable element] to [current position] caught my attention.

I'm a [brief description of yourself] interested in [area]. I'd appreciate the chance to ask a few questions about your experience—particularly [specific topic].

I know you're busy. If you have 15 minutes sometime, I'd be grateful. If not, no worries at all.

Thanks for considering, [Your Name]

What Makes Emails Work

Specificity. "I'm interested in banking" is generic. "I'm curious how your background in engineering influenced your approach to TMT coverage" is specific.

Brevity. Respect their time. Say what you need to say, then stop.

Clear ask. "Can we chat sometime?" is vague. "Would you have 15 minutes for a call next week?" is actionable.

Easy out. "If not, no worries" reduces pressure. Paradoxically, it makes people more likely to say yes.

Common Mistakes

Too long. If your email scrolls, it's too long.

Too generic. Emails that could be sent to anyone get treated like spam.

Too presumptuous. Asking for a referral in the first email is too much, too soon.

Too desperate. Desperation repels. Confidence attracts.

Typos or wrong names. Nothing kills a cold email faster than getting their name wrong.


The Follow-Up

Most people don't respond to the first email. That's normal. Follow-up is essential.

The Timing

  • First follow-up: 5-7 days after initial email
  • Second follow-up: 7-10 days after first follow-up
  • After two follow-ups with no response, move on

The Approach

Keep follow-ups brief. Don't repeat your entire first email.

Hi [First Name],

Just wanted to bump this to the top of your inbox. I know you're busy—if you have a few minutes to chat about [topic], I'd really appreciate it.

Thanks, [Your Name]

Or:

Hi [First Name],

Following up on my note from last week. Would love to hear about your experience at [Firm] if you have time.

Best, [Your Name]

When to Stop

After two unanswered follow-ups, stop. More than that feels pushy.

Some people won't respond. That's fine. Move on to others. Don't take it personally.


The Informational Interview

They said yes. Now what?

Before the Call

Research thoroughly. Know their background, their firm, their group. Read any content they've published. Check for recent news about their firm.

Prepare specific questions. Not "tell me about your job." Instead: "How did you decide between M&A and industry coverage?" or "What surprised you most about the transition from analyst to associate?"

Test your technology. Phone or video, make sure it works. Call from somewhere quiet.

During the Call

Start with gratitude. Thank them for their time. Mean it.

Let them talk. Your job is to ask good questions and listen, not to impress them with your knowledge.

Take notes. Write down key points, advice, and names they mention.

Watch the clock. If you asked for 15 minutes, wrap up at 15. They can extend if they want to.

Ask for referrals strategically. Near the end: "Is there anyone else you'd recommend I speak with?" This expands your network exponentially.

Good Questions to Ask

About their path:

  • What led you to choose [firm/group]?
  • What surprised you most about the role?
  • If you were starting over, what would you do differently?

About the work:

  • What does a typical week look like?
  • What's the most challenging part of your role?
  • What separates great analysts from good ones?

About recruiting:

  • What do you look for when interviewing candidates?
  • What mistakes do candidates commonly make?
  • How important is [specific skill or experience]?

About the future:

  • Where do people typically go after a few years in your group?
  • How is the industry changing?
  • What advice would you give someone in my position?

What Not to Ask

  • Anything easily Googled
  • Salary specifics (unless they volunteer)
  • For a job or referral directly (in a first meeting)
  • Controversial opinions about their firm or colleagues

Ending Well

Summarize what you learned. "This was really helpful—I especially appreciated your point about [specific insight]."

Ask about next steps. "Is there anything I can do for you?" or "Would it be okay to follow up as I progress through recruiting?"

Thank them again. Gratitude leaves a positive impression.


After the Conversation

The conversation was just the beginning. What happens next matters more.

The Thank-You Email

Send within 24 hours. Be specific about what you found valuable.

Subject: Thank You

Hi [First Name],

Thank you for taking the time to speak with me today. Your insight about [specific topic] was especially helpful—it's something I hadn't considered before.

I'll definitely follow up with [name they mentioned] as you suggested.

I appreciate your generosity with your time. Hopefully our paths cross again.

Best, [Your Name]

The Follow-Up Network

If they mentioned other people to talk to, reach out within a week. Use their name: "[First Name] suggested I reach out..."

Close the loop. After you talk to the people they referred, send a brief update: "I spoke with [Name]—great conversation. Thanks again for the introduction."

The Long-Term Relationship

Don't let the relationship end with one call.

Stay in touch periodically:

  • Share articles relevant to their work
  • Congratulate them on promotions or news
  • Update them on your progress

Don't overdo it. Once every few months is plenty. You're staying on their radar, not becoming a nuisance.

Add value when you can. If you learn something useful, share it. If you meet someone they'd benefit from knowing, make the introduction.


Building Your Network Over Time

The Funnel Approach

Think of networking as a funnel.

Top of funnel: Many cold outreach attempts. Low conversion rate.

Middle of funnel: People who respond. Initial conversations.

Bottom of funnel: Real relationships. People who know you and will advocate for you.

You need volume at the top to build quality at the bottom. Send 20 cold emails to get 4 conversations to build 1 strong relationship.

The Numbers

Effective networking requires consistency. Here's a realistic pace:

ActivityWeekly Target
New cold outreach emails10-15
Follow-up emails5-10
Informational calls2-3
Thank-you notes2-3
Relationship maintenance2-3

This takes 3-5 hours per week. Treat it like a part-time job during recruiting season.

Tracking Your Network

Keep a simple spreadsheet:

NameFirmRoleDate ContactedStatusNotesFollow-up

Track everyone you reach out to, what you discussed, and when to follow up. Relationships are too important to leave to memory.

Converting Relationships to Opportunities

As you build relationships, some will naturally lead to opportunities.

The progression:

  1. Initial conversation → They remember your name
  2. Follow-up interactions → They know your story
  3. Consistent relationship → They become an advocate
  4. Opportunity arises → They think of you

Don't rush this. Pushing for referrals too early damages relationships. Let trust build naturally.

When to ask for help:

  • After multiple genuine interactions
  • When there's a specific, appropriate opportunity
  • When you've given value, not just taken

Common Networking Mistakes

Being Too Transactional

People sense when you only care about what they can do for you. Build relationships first. Opportunities follow.

Reaching Out Only When You Need Something

The person who disappears for two years and resurfaces asking for a referral is annoying. Stay in touch consistently.

Not Following Up

One conversation means nothing if you don't nurture the relationship. Follow up, stay connected, and be remembered.

Asking for Too Much Too Soon

A first email shouldn't ask for a job. A first call shouldn't ask for a referral. Build trust before making big asks.

Generic Outreach

Mass emails that could be sent to anyone get treated like spam. Personalization takes effort but dramatically improves results.

Giving Up Too Early

Networking takes time. If you send 10 emails and give up, you'll fail. Consistency over months builds networks that open doors.


Networking for Different Situations

For Underclassmen

Start early. You have time to build relationships before you need them.

  • Focus on learning, not asking for jobs
  • Attend every recruiting event possible
  • Connect with seniors who land jobs—they'll be junior bankers soon
  • Build relationships with professors who have industry connections

For Upperclassmen in Recruiting

Time is compressed. Be strategic.

  • Prioritize people at your target firms
  • Balance breadth (new contacts) with depth (strengthening key relationships)
  • Ask explicitly for referrals when appropriate
  • Follow up on every interview with thank-you notes

For Non-Target School Students

You need networking more than target students do. Work harder at it.

  • Leverage any connections: alumni, family friends, professors
  • Focus on middle-market firms where competition is less intense
  • Consider geographic angles—firms in your region may prefer local candidates
  • Be persistent. Non-target success usually requires more outreach.

For Career Changers

Your existing network matters more than you think.

  • People from your current industry who've made the switch
  • Colleagues who moved to financial services
  • MBA alumni if you have that background
  • Professional associations bridging your field and finance

The Uncomfortable Truth

Networking isn't fair. Some people start with advantages—parents in finance, prep school connections, target school networks. Others start with nothing.

The gap is real. But networking is one of the few things you can control. You can't change your parents' jobs or which school admitted you. You can send more emails, attend more events, and build more relationships.

Effort compounds. The person who networks consistently for two years builds a powerful web of relationships. The person who waits until they need a job scrambles.

Start early. Be consistent. Give before you take. The relationships you build now will shape your entire career.


The Bottom Line

Finance careers are built on relationships. The most qualified person doesn't always get the job. The most connected often does.

Networking isn't about being fake or transactional. It's about building genuine relationships with people who can help you—and whom you can help in return.

The tactics matter: well-crafted emails, thorough preparation, consistent follow-up. But the foundation is mindset: genuine curiosity about people, long-term thinking, and generosity.

Start now. Send 10 emails this week. Have two conversations. Begin building the network that will carry your career.

The best time to start networking was two years ago. The second-best time is today.

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